Scared to Life!

I am so excited I can hardly contain myself.  In the words of  Julia Roberts, from one of my favorite movies Pretty Woman, "I could almost pee in my pants"! For now I'll just cross my legs instead but you get the general idea.  There's no new man, great job opportunity, fancy foreign car in my … Continue reading Scared to Life!

Have You Checked Your Failure List?

As we move into 2018 I've spent some time in reflection and I've drawn a very specific conclusion; all of my failures have led up to this very moment in which I need to make a decision to either apply the lessons or go back through the cycle of those failures all over again.  No-one typically … Continue reading Have You Checked Your Failure List?

Identity Theft

via Daily Prompt: Identity As a young girl I struggled during my developmental stage with the "Who am I?" inquiry that most teenagers experience.  The difference in my case was that I didn't suffer from being an introvert, shy, lonely type of person.  I was exactly the opposite; confident, extrovert, funny and friendly.  Popularity was … Continue reading Identity Theft

The Power of Focus

If you've ever had to host overnight guest during a Holiday season like Thanksgiving or Christmas then you know the level of planning, cleaning, scheduling and preparation necessary to ensure a successful visit for your family and guests.  When you have a family of your own your normal routine doesn't allow for much room to … Continue reading The Power of Focus

Guarding the Heart!

One of my greatest fears following my 17 year marriage was that I didn't become bitter! I knew I had been wronged, mishandled, lied too and cheated on but I was determined not to become a bitter divorced woman.  It took quite some time before I would open up and allow myself to be courted … Continue reading Guarding the Heart!

Where is the Black Man’s Support System?

I've discovered that when I work out alone I do better to listen to something inspirational, educational or motivational rather than simply music.  It  seems to keep my focus on the content rather than the workout which makes it go by much faster.  Today was no different but when I attempted to listen to one … Continue reading Where is the Black Man’s Support System?

The PINNACLE Only Comes with the CLIMB!

  Today I had the honor and privilege to do a mountain hike of Crowder's Mountain NC with my seventeen year old daughter, my girlfriend for her 45th birthday and 3 additional ladies that I met for the first time this morning.  It had been 22 years since the last time I hiked and I … Continue reading The PINNACLE Only Comes with the CLIMB!

Imagine If I Never Hit PLAY!

At first when my girlfriend called me and said she wanted me to watch something "RIGHT NOW", I thought "I really don't feel like doing this now", but I'm always going to avail myself to information so she sent me the link and I curled up on my couch, phone in hand and hit play. … Continue reading Imagine If I Never Hit PLAY!

Recognize the Mask!

If there is one thing that I have realized over time is that EVERYTHING that I experience which I may perceive as negative, is ultimately not for my good, but for the one who will enter the same experience after me. What do I mean? When I lost my home, job, marriage, fought illnesses, struggled … Continue reading Recognize the Mask!

What Would Happen If Every WOMAN KNEW????

This topic is very dear to females across the globe.  It isn't something we like to talk about but God created us to reproduce and expand the Earth and this very tiny aspect of the process became our fate.  Until I was introduced to this video, like so many other women I made decisions based … Continue reading What Would Happen If Every WOMAN KNEW????